Who We Are
As Sex Doulas/Educators Dr. Stacy and Rhonda Spencer work with couples through transitions
of sexual shame/sexual dysfunction/fear/confusion around their sexuality and sex life. They help transition couples and individuals into feeling sexually free and sexually liberated and more aligned with their
sexual lives and sexual identities.”
In their critically acclaimed book on being Naked and Unashamed Dr. Spencer said this: my hope that in writing this book I can help Married couples, post modern Adam and Eve’s get back into that secret garden where they can be naked and Unashamed.
Naked being a state where there is .] no hiding from who. we are sexually. Being comfortable in our own skin. Naked being able to embrace our sexuality without the pollution of corrupted sexually views.
Unashamed being free from guilt because of past actions or fear of future actions through condemning thoughts that have been passed down through miseducation, genetic predilections, or regretful past experiences. Unashamed, reaching a healthy biblical compromise on what is acceptable before God for a man and a woman who are married to enjoy in their bedroom and it not be defiled.
Come into God’s Garden where passion runs deep between a husband and wife, and they are naked and unashamed.
Mission Statement
"Our mission is to liberate married couples emotionally, sexually, and spiritually. We aim to foster an environment where partners can become erotically conscious, building a healthy relationship where both individuals learn to be naked and unashamed."
Our Values
1. Non-Violent Communication:
We value non-violent communication between husband and wife to ascertain unmet needs behind expressed emotions, fostering understanding and empathy.
2. Biblical Understanding of Marriage:
As a cisgendered Christian couple, we value a biblical understanding of marriage between a husband and a wife, honoring the traditional and sacred union.
3. Intersectionality of Spirituality and Sexuality:
We value the intersectionality of spirituality and sexuality, recognizing that both aspects are integral to a fulfilling marital relationship.
4. Creativity and Passion:
We value creativity and passion in the marital bedroom, celebrating the intimate and joyous expressions of love between partners.
5. Healing from Sexual Trauma:
We value spiritual and emotional healing for those who have survived sexual trauma, providing support and compassion for their journey towards wholeness.
6. Safe Community:
We value a safe community for married couples to love and support one another, fostering connections that strengthen and encourage.
7. Sacred Commitment to Marriage:
We value a sacred commitment to marriage lasting a lifetime, dedicating ourselves to enduring love and faithfulness.
Vision Statement
We want to liberate married couples to become erotically conscious and bridge the intersectionality of their spirituality and sexuality to return to their original God created state of being Naked and without Shame.
What we believe
1. Emotional Liberation:
Scripture: "Cast all your anxiety on Him because He cares for you." (1 Peter 5:7)
Belief: We believe in freeing married couples from emotional burdens, trusting in God's care and support.
2. Sexual Wholeness:
Scripture: "The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband." (1 Corinthians 7:3)
Belief: We believe in the importance of sexual fulfillment within marriage, honoring each other's needs.
3. Spiritual Unity:
Scripture: "Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate." (Mark 10:9)
Belief: We believe in strengthening the spiritual bond between married couples, recognizing the sacredness of their union.
4. Erotic Consciousness:
Scripture: "Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth— for your love is more delightful than wine." (Song of Solomon 1:2)
Belief: We believe in developing a conscious and healthy erotic relationship, celebrating mutual love and affection.
5. Healthy Relationships:
Scripture: "Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor." (Ecclesiastes 4:9)
Belief: We believe in building strong, supportive relationships where couples work together for mutual benefit.
6. Naked and Unashamed:
Scripture: "Adam and his wife were both naked, and they felt no shame." (Genesis 2:25)
Belief: We believe in creating a safe space where couples can be completely open and vulnerable with each other.
7. Emotional Support:
Scripture: "Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn." (Romans 12:15)
Belief: We believe in providing emotional support to each other, sharing both joys and sorrows.
8. Sexual Integrity:
Scripture: "Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure." (Hebrews 13:4)
Belief: We believe in maintaining sexual integrity within marriage, upholding its sanctity.
9. Spiritual Growth:
Scripture: "As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another." (Proverbs 27:17)
Belief: We believe in encouraging each other's spiritual growth, fostering mutual edification.
10. Holistic Liberation:
Scripture: "It is for freedom that Christ has set us free. Stand firm, then, and do not let yourselves be burdened again by a yoke of slavery." (Galatians 5:1)
Belief: We believe in holistic liberation—emotionally, sexually, and spiritually—embracing the freedom Christ offers.
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These beliefs guide us in our mission to support and liberate married couples, fostering relationships that are emotionally, sexually, and spiritually fulfilling.